Daydream
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The daydream is about to end in another 1 hour time. The dream where i can taste authentic Thai food and relaxed bars and cafes whenever I want is great but short.


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Good news not shared
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Good news not share is not good news at all. I am holidaying in Bangkok but since I can't tell people what the good news is about, I am not feeling particular happy about it. I hope I don't have to wait until December before I can announce the news. The best case will be for the news to be announced on tuesday morning where I don't have to be around for the awkward stares and smiles.


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What happen to "stick together team"?
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I am disappointed that my friends are going to celebrate alex's birthday with him even after all the cold shoulders treatments received for the past few months. I don't think this is a true reconciliation because it had happened before last December. There was a calm period when everything was okay but all of the sudden he just, went on a crazy cursing spree on Facebook and unfriending us on it. I do not want to re-live this whole episode again. The last time I was so hurt and disturbed that I could not even sleep. I was thinking about it all day and all night, trying to understand why and how things got so screwed up. I kept asking myself "what did I do"? I feel I am just collateral damage in his path of destruction against Jason.

That time,we supported one another and stood by our actions. It was difficult and awkward for everyone but we have gotten over it. There can be forgiveness but things should not be forgotten. To forget is to accept his un-reasonable actions and sending out a signal that it is okay when clearly it is not. I do not wish for war but his exclusive invitation scheme clearly shows he has not let him grudge down. What deeply sadden me is that my friends do not see it this way and is going to celebrate his birthday with him. If the situation has been reversed, I would have never go for it if anyone of my friends were left out. 
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Fire drill
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This time one year ago during fire drill, we were all happily drinking at Paulaner-Brauhaus. The fire drill exercise came at the right moment. It reminded us to take a break from work and to pursue our work-life balance goal. Fast forward one year from then, though the characters have not changed but things are no longer the same. Work is much more complicated and friends became foes. This time during fire drill, we are no longer drinking at Paulaner-Brauhaus.

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Micron dragonboat race
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August 25th Micron Dragonboat race
Green team - Lithography team
When I was in the Garden's flower dome, I thought that it would be a great experience to be paddling in the Kallang basin because the view would be great and the water will be cooling and I was right. Got to paddle from the Kallang watersport centre to the marina barrage. The water is a lot cleaner than it was 6 years ago and I guess it is because the whole basin is like a reservoir now. It feels great to be paddling again and I haven't done it since the last hall sea expedition

Birthday Sun glasses
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Hey I finally got my sunglasses, a gift from the girls for my 27th birthday. The thing that I like about the sun glasses is that they choose the design that suit me, if not I would probably end up buying an expensive and not fitting pair of white elephant. 

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Injustice
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Verbally abused and now victimized.
This injustice really knows no end.


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Mediation
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The only type of mediation I have heard of is couple therapy. I have never been directly involved in any meditation session before so I don't know if there are any success stories associated with mediation. I guess the closest type I can relate to in "manager to subordinate" review, however that didn't work out well either because in the end the member still chose to quit and join another team.

When the situation is already so bleak, will counselling help? Perhaps, both parties will agree to recoiling on surface but does that mean that the issue is fully resolved and that things can go back to the way they were? I hardly think so. The analogy that comes to my mind is "Mending a broken mirror": No matter how you patch it, the cracks will always be visible.

The sad thing is that, this time round, it doesn't hurt so much anyway.
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What does confidence means
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http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi/what-does-confidence-mean.html?utm_medium=referral&utm_source=pulsenews

Edwin sent me this good piece of article.Want to share it because I think every man should read it
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Carnivore Brazilian Churrascaria
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June 4th Carnivore lunch

I had a good brunch at Carnivore today. Sibei full sia. 
1-For-1 buffet promotion till 22nd July.
Should try it before the promotion ends
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